#13
by Solumbum
hey im in grade 7 and i really really like a girl but to nervouse to talk to her what should i do:0
You do not need to be dating in seventh grade. There is no real point to it. Wait until you are at least middle school, if not high school. The point of dating is to find someone you are going to marry. And if you marry when you are in 11th grade thats kinda weird. But if you want my advice, just be yourself. Don't be vulgar in any way(if this contradicts being yourself then dismiss my first tip). Most girls won't like that. Get to know her. Don't try to impress her. If you get in a conversation with her, dont brag or talk about yourself too much. IMO girls like it when guys do that. Play a sport of some kind.
And for the grand tip: don't look at just her outside appearance. See what she really is. Is she a girl who will respect you and love you for all your days? Or is she the kind of girl who though she loves you, tears you down all the time. Watch how she treats her elders. Men are to love and respect their wives and women are to respect an love their husbands. See what kind of a girl she is and dont let your eyes get clouded with "instant love" and you can find a good girl to marry.
In middle school/high school, things shouldnt be focused on marriage (great advice btw sol) but you said that dating is only for finding someone you will marry. Its true for when your 21 or older but honestly the person you date in ms of hs is probably not gonna be the person you marry, but its a good way to kinda experience dating, and stuff like that.
Yes, at first glance it seems harmless to date in middle school and high school(and many times it is), but sometimes it can lead places where you really don't need to be at that age. I know that dating is use for whatever in high school and below; i was saying it shouldn't be.
@redherring: i know that 7nth grade is middle school. I meant high school, im sorry ive now edited my post.
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