Good question to ask Gabee,
I've lead clans in my past and currently still hold high positions but right now, the trend is creating another alt to calm down the drama that went on the persons main. I've seen it all trust me. Usually, this will end up in rejoining the clan they once got kicked or left from. But why? I still ask myself that today. The clan clearly didnt want you in the first place? You must not be that important...dont fool yourself on that one. Everyone has a purpose just as in real life.
In my books, I consider those returning to their old clan on their knees as "weak". Why bow down when they left kicked you out? Put you in the rain. Yes, I myself have recruited some of those people that got kicked out and there are always 2 stories. Obviously, one is always not heard or was never given chance to talk. Why are we silencing players? Since when did we stop being human?
I've made great friendships with those people and loved every minute with them. I've stood up for them when they were harrassed and even worse. I've loved every single clan member to bits and pieces, ugh! I even cried over them.
First, I'd say find out your worth. Give it time don't rush, try out some fishing or cooking. Finish all your side quests. Never be afraid to ask, you might have left or have been removed from a clan but that doesnt mean others are still willing to help you. Look at what you can upgrade and maybe find groups that are willing to help you or fight the mob together. Don't underestimate those small clans, see what kind of resources they have and plan something this is much more exciting than you think. Why kill edl with 20 ppl when you can kill it with 7-8 ppl. "I've never seen rage before" Oh boy, we have and its exciting. From every wipe you gain experience and let me tell you, those clans might not have the best "DPS LUX" or might never be the "BEST DPS" or whatever competitive bs is out there but we have lux representing the strategy, we are using. Example: Colours killed Imperial Heliant with 3 toons LOL (no druid). Player experience changes in those clans because you have limited resources avaliable.
I always try to talk people out of Quitting so if you are this player, there is a lot of satifsfaction out there. If you are in need of EG dont worry, thats all avaliable in clans as well as Auction House. From Fellfire to Ancient Runes lol to Flawless Heliant drops to Skain sets to Void Bob Wand (RL currency prefered). Arawn has it all, not all cheap but if you find your way around those are easily accessible. I have no doubt that within 1 or 2months after the new Garden Boss is realeased that new items will hit the market. It always happens.
If you are really thinking about quitting, don't sell your loot just yet. Move on a bit with Real life and come back when you feel like it. Trust me, friends and people around the server will miss you. But at least don't sell your items like the Blue Coven Mage for RL currency. Thats no good.
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